This is a fair challenge to make.
Churchgoers are neither use nor ornament whereas Christians are a boon to The Church, their families and their society. The former have little if any relationship with Jesus and the latter are the Soldiers of Christ.
Have you started to say about those matters which you know are sinful in your own life, "Well, God doesn't really mind - after all, He loves me?"
Copout alert! God certainly does love you but if you think that He will tolerate unrepented sin - you are badly mistaken.
Get your life as a Christian back on track. If you don't know what I mean then get ye to the nearest evangelical Church and ask them!
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