"You're going to hell, and you need to get saved." (2)

Think about these two facts:

1) Anyone you say goodbye to today - you have know idea as to whether you will ever see them alive again.

2) If someone's house is on fire - you tell them, you warn them forcibly. You do not shilly-shally!

So how come we allow our friends, family, colleagues and neighbours to risk hell? Is it just to protect ourselves from feeling embarrassed?