How Do You Really Forgive Someone Who Hurt You?
I was having a really great day…a REALLY great day… When all
of a sudden "IT" hit me – the memory of what "that person" did to me over 30
years ago. Within a couple of seconds I went from happiness and joy to pain and
anger ... serious anger, like I wanted to hurt someone anger. Christian Post.
Well. I've been there too but have learned that the most
important step is the first one. When you cannot forgive, then at least, be
PREPARED to forgive. From that point you can move on. (However, you may never be
able to trust the person again - I do not think that is a necessary requirement.) The second step is to pray for the person with all your soul. Eventually you
should find that you have reached a Christian resolution to what is actually YOUR problem.