Tra la la. Better to leave the unregenerate in ignorance of their ultimate destination, huh?
So many church ministers go into 'universal salvation heresy' mode - which most probably don't actually believe in - whenever they take the funerals of non-Christians. This is because "It would be wrong to upset the bereaved."
The unsaved and the bereaved are going to be a damn sight more upset if they end up being deposited into Hell because of an attitude which is nothing less than cowardice from Christ's Church.