It has oft been stated that in Victorian times, sex was unmentionable and death acceptable to discuss. Today that has seemingly been reversed.
Yet death comes to us all - it is inexorable, inescapable and certain.
A majority of people believe in a life after death but do NOTHING in preparation. It appears that they prefer to manufacture self-deceiving devices to avoid thinking about the realities in the same way that so many hope that a wickedly aching tooth will get better and a trip to the dentists can be avoided.
If this applies to you - let me help you wade through all the tosh and balderdash.
Go to The Gospels!