
You make a winning point - they ignore it; an intellectual one - they sidestep it; a personal experience, and rather than examine the point they will resort to insult and will either question your sanity or your truthfulness. Their most telling argument seems to be the 'authority' issue: "I say there is no God, ergo there isn't." Pretty heady debating techniques, what? Do intelligent people not know that agnosticism is an option? - It may well be flawed but it surely beats the impossible; "I KNOW God does not exist."
All those who seek truth WILL find it - Jesus said so.